John Southard says, "The
only people to get even with are those who have helped you."
John Andrew Holmes said, "The entire population of the universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others." No matter how much you focus on your own goals and achievements, you’re not a fully developed individual until concern for others starts to become more important than concern for yourself.
So don’t worry about “getting even” when you’ve been wronged – it’s a waste of your time, and can’t produce any positive results. Think more about getting even when you’ve done right! Then you’ll find more and more good things coming your way!
15:5 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same
attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had (NIV)